You are never going to grow if you aren’t ready to grow.

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Hi sweet friend. I am so excited to bring you this blog post. I am really big on transparency, and letting you into my little world. I want nothing more than to help others achieve what I have achieved: whether that is personally, mentally, or financing. Are you ready?

I really do believe that you are never going to grow if you aren’t ready to grow. But how can one make sure they are ready? Well, I think you will feel ready in your gut, but let me share with you how it happened for me, and be sure to take the actionable steps listed below each paragraph. I cannot wait to see where this takes you.

You are never going to grow if you aren’t ready to grow.– Jo

In every journey of transformation, the topic of growth invariably surfaces. It’s a deeply personal journey, often paved with challenges and revelations. Many times, the barriers we face are not external; they’re rooted deep within our emotional and mental landscapes.

Personal Realization
Over the past 18 months, I’ve scaled the challenging terrains of personal growth. It wasn’t a mere momentary epiphany. I hit an emotional rock bottom, which compelled me to rebuild my business structure. It wasn’t just about a professional rebirth; it was about ensuring I lived the life I truly deserved. This didn’t happen overnight. It was like a tiny speck of sand, barely noticeable, which eventually formed a dune.

Action: Reflect upon the past year of your life. Identify an event or a series of events that deeply impacted you. Write them down, understand the emotions attached to them, and visualize how they can guide your growth.

The Pitfall of Pursuing Someone Else’s Dream
I confess, at one point, I was that person chasing someone else’s dream. The cost? A paralyzing sense of being lost. I could no longer recognize the person staring back at me in the mirror. It was a haunting realization of the perils of relinquishing one’s own vision.

Action: Write down your personal goals and dreams. Compare them with your current actions and pursuits. If there’s a mismatch, it’s time to reconsider your path. Remember to constantly evaluate if you’re working towards your dream or someone else’s.

Awakening to Growth
The catalyst for my transformation was twofold: a profound self-awareness and a series of professional challenges. It was as if the universe conspired, ushering me into a phase of profound personal and mental growth. These experiences were invaluable, teaching me more about myself than years of unchallenged existence ever could.

Action: Dedicate some quiet time to self-reflection. Identify the recent challenges you faced and the lessons they offered. Remember, growth often accompanies discomfort. Embrace it.

Defining Growth
So, what exactly is growth? To me, growth is born from experiences and, importantly, our mistakes. It’s about both personal and professional evolution. I won’t delve into the spiritual or relational dimensions here, but I firmly believe that growth’s essence is in embracing our flaws, learning, and marching forward.

Action: Create a ‘Growth Journal.’ Regularly document your mistakes and the lessons they brought. Over time, you’ll see patterns and areas of personal and professional development. But my favorite purpose for this will be later on down the road when you are ready to share and help others walk the path.

Recognizing the Signs of Readiness for Growth
How do we know we’re ready to grow? It’s that pivotal moment when we’ve exhausted our reservoir of excuses. That moment when rationalizing our stagnation no longer holds water.

Action: List down all the excuses you’ve been giving yourself. Now, for each excuse, write a counter-reason why that excuse isn’t valid. It’s a way of confronting and debunking your own barriers.

Inspiration from Og Mandino
Og Mandino’s wisdom has been a guiding light in my journey. His words resonate with truth and have been a continuous source of inspiration. The idea that we shape our futures, that we’re the architects of our destinies, echoes throughout his works and in my own beliefs.

Action: If you haven’t already, pick up one of Og Mandino’s books. As you read, highlight quotes or sections that resonate with you. Review these regularly to reignite your motivation.

Confronting Fears and Taking Action
My mother once said, “Just do it – now.” It wasn’t about the action itself but the immediacy of it. Growth isn’t about merely wanting change; it’s about urgently seeking it. I’ve never been one to be paralyzed by fear. All I need is a coherent plan, and the path ahead becomes clear.

Action: Whenever you feel fear or hesitation, pause and ask yourself: “What’s the worst that can happen?” Most of the time, you’ll realize the worst-case scenario isn’t as bad as the regret of not trying. Create a plan, however small, and initiate the first step.

Cultivating Readiness for Growth
To cultivate a readiness for growth, surround yourself with those who inspire you. Exude the confidence and skills you wish to embody. I’ve always found solace and guidance in books and podcasts. Especially podcasts, for they echo the timeliness and relevance of our ever-evolving world.

  1. List down five people who inspire you, be it personally or professionally. Engage with their content, be it books, podcasts, or seminars.
  2. Every morning, practice positive affirmations in the mirror, reinforcing the confidence and skills you aim to embody.
  3. Dedicate a certain amount of time each week to listen to a podcast or read a book that contributes to your growth.

Final Thoughts and Words of Encouragement
If I could impart one wisdom nugget, it’d be this: Do not let anyone or anything, especially your own web of excuses, stifle your growth. There’s a universe of potential within you, waiting to be unleashed. Once you toss aside the excuses, the world becomes your canvas. Remember, you got this.

Action: Create a ‘Growth Mantra’ board. Fill it with quotes, images, and affirmations that resonate with your growth journey. Whenever doubts creep in, turn to this board for inspiration and assurance.

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